Honest dialogue, shared reflection

I collaborate with synagogues, organizations, and communities to navigate moments of change, growth, and complexity with clarity, compassion, and creativity. Whether I am leading listening sessions on Israel or U.S. politics, guiding a congregation through a clergy transition, or helping an organization reimagine its purpose, I create space for honest dialogue, shared reflection, and thoughtful progress. I have facilitated learning and discussion on some of the most sensitive and divisive topics in Jewish communal life.

What’s being said?  What’s beneath the surface? 

My work is grounded in deep listening—to individuals, communities, and the nuances in what is expressed and what is left unspoken. I have facilitated discussions with both small and large groups, guiding them to explore complex questions with openness and courage. My approach is both structured and spacious, enabling communities to navigate the uncertainties of the moment. I specialize in helping these groups dwell in that space with intention and support—long enough to uncover new insights, generate fresh ideas, and chart a path forward.

Change can be hard. It can also be holy.

I am here to help you embrace it with curiosity, compassion, and courage. My work focuses on guiding leaders and teams to discover the generative space where true transformation occurs. I witness congregations as they articulate their vision and values, navigate the difficult departure of beloved staff, and envision what comes next. Additionally, I support clergy search committees through thoughtful and spiritually grounded search processes.

Every community has its unique context, history, and aspirations. I help you ask emerging questions and accompany you in discovering the answers that fit your community.

“The retreat exceeded my every expectation”

Your ability to pivot in the moment resulted in beautiful success with our clergy team retreat. You created a space where a talented group devoted to each other could find healing amidst difficult realities and a path forward. You allowed difficult issues to emerge in a way that no one felt threatened or hurt. You opened doors for us to see ways we could modify our behavior and move forward with love and joy. The retreat exceeded my every expectation.

Rabbi Nat Ezray

Congregation Beth Jacob
Redwood City, CA

“An important healing step for our community “

Our Reform synagogue experienced tensions surrounding Israel; we needed her approach of deep listening in our community. She gave a heartfelt Friday night drash to introduce the Listening Circles concept to us.  She then trained local clergy to co-facilitate with her. Fifty congregants participated in a single evening, and we were able to express our thoughts and feelings in these small circles.  This was an important healing step for our community; we are grateful for Rabbi Leider’s leadership.

Sarah Pattison

Israel Peace Alternatives Group Chair
Congregation Bet Haverim
Davis, CA

“A thoughtful, supportive collaborator—easy to work with”

I had the pleasure of partnering with Susan to guide the USY strategic planning process for USCJ. Together, we engaged a broad spectrum of stakeholders to envision a future for USY that would have the greatest impact on the Conservative movement.

She brought a deep understanding of the Jewish communal landscape. Her ability to weave Jewish teaching and wisdom into the process enriched our conversations and strengthened the outcomes. Susan is a thoughtful, supportive collaborator—easy to work with and a true partner.

Marie McCormick, Ph.D.

Co-Founder and Principal
Insyte Partners

“Uniquely skilled at creating deep listening and learning spaces. . .”

We are blessed by Susan’s deep skills. As part of our Executive Council, she created reflection spaces after challenging conversations, as board members process their roles and how issues affect them personally and professionally. She helps quieter members find their voices and helps more outspoken members realize the importance of deep listening in moments of disagreement. At our convention, she held a rabbis’ group in supportive dialogue as they shared personal and professional highlights and disappointments. She is uniquely skilled at creating deep listening and learning spaces for both groups and individuals.

Rabbi Sheryl Katzman

Chief Engagement Officer
Rabbinical Assembly

“She makes complex concepts readily accessible”

Rabbi Leider is a gifted, versatile, and wise teacher of Jewish spirituality, for novices or advanced practitioners alike. She crafts beautiful teachings, meditations, and prayer services which open hearts and help others access their innate wisdom — and apply that wisdom to daily living.  She makes complex concepts readily accessible and meaningful, and embodies presence, compassion, humility, and humor in a way that inspires her students and peers.  I recommend her highly as a teacher, facilitator, guide, and leader.

Rabbi Marc Margolius

Senior Core Faculty
Institute for Jewish Spirituality